• the_riviera_kid@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    That is entirely different than suspecting you of cheating every moment she doesn’t have eyes on you.

      • douglasg14b@lemmy.world
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        3 days ago

        For real and there’s so many people in this thread who have only had toxic relationships or are in toxic relationships, projecting insecurities and lack of trust onto others who may not have these problems.

        I don’t think this is a good idea for most people, but for some it makes sense and we need to remember that everyone is in different situations.

        When you have a spouse that travels a lot, anxiety can get pretty high.

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        2 days ago

        None of the arguments for sharing location relate to cheating. If you are worried your partner is cheating, nothing will assuage your concerns, that is a you and them problem. I don’t think for one second my wife would cheat on me, and not because I’m the greatest thing since sliced bread or anything, she’s just a good, honest person, and when we have things come up in our relationship she talks to me.

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        3 days ago

        I think most do. Everybody here only looks at the “controlling, jealous partner” and never at the actually “loving, healthy, concerned partner”.