As a man experiencing a lack of friendship, camaraderie, and emotion connection, regardless of fault or cause, the OP reduces that experience to “not getting laid”. That affects me regardless of never actually using the phrase “male loneliness epidemic” to describe anything, of whether I fall into some 100 pages of “exceptions”, or that the post doesn’t explicitly say “those experiences don’t exist”. To say that the OP doesn’t actually communicate that is to simply close one’s eyes to an inconvenient truth of how people work.
Being told something has an impact. Even if it can be rationalized as “not about me”. Even if what was said isn’t what was intended. Even if some comments express support for people like me (and ignoring everyone who doubles down on it). Even if “big boy learns people say mean things sometimes”. What do you think that impact is gonna be here? For someone sharing my experiences who doesn’t stop to dig into this post, I doubt that impact is to move them towards being the sort of healthy, happy person we’d want.
As a man experiencing a lack of friendship, camaraderie, and emotion connection, regardless of fault or cause, the OP reduces that experience to “not getting laid”. That affects me regardless of never actually using the phrase “male loneliness epidemic” to describe anything, of whether I fall into some 100 pages of “exceptions”, or that the post doesn’t explicitly say “those experiences don’t exist”. To say that the OP doesn’t actually communicate that is to simply close one’s eyes to an inconvenient truth of how people work.
Being told something has an impact. Even if it can be rationalized as “not about me”. Even if what was said isn’t what was intended. Even if some comments express support for people like me (and ignoring everyone who doubles down on it). Even if “big boy learns people say mean things sometimes”. What do you think that impact is gonna be here? For someone sharing my experiences who doesn’t stop to dig into this post, I doubt that impact is to move them towards being the sort of healthy, happy person we’d want.