Why does he want this? Has something changed where he doesn’t feel welcome at home? Is he trying to get out of the way of you and your girlfriend?

If it’s about independence then it sounds great as long as you can handle the responsibility of it. If it’s just about isolation then this seems more like ya got some relationship mending to do.

Mario Kart Double Dash

But I don’t live in Colorado?

That’s a really terrible anecdote. Real life quantity group would find ways to do less and less for the same reward. You would end up with fifty pounds of clay with a fist shape indention. Call it a pot and be done.

Likely because they were once upbeat and positive people too and it didn’t get them what they want so they have changed their ways to be less positive.

So anybody who is still positive, in their experience, hasn’t learned yet that that isn’t going to get them what they want.

It might be a defense mechanism. They were taken advantage of when they were more open and positive.

It might just be bad learned behavior. The people who have what they want aren’t very positive to them.

It is also not easy to stay positive so a lot of people choose not to. Sometimes we like to make excuses for why people are able to do the harder things that we’re not doing. “Oh I would volunteer too if I had as much time as them.”. “Oh I am just not naive enough to be that positive”