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    5 days ago

    he heard Pete might have dated women before coming out in 2015 so just assumes that means he couldn’t be gay

    I have a gay friend who sometimes sleeps with women. He’s primarily into men, so he doesn’t consider himself bi. But even so, he’s been with more women than most straight guys have. He’s a ruggedly handsome and engaging guy and women really like him. Men like him too. He’s also a hell of a guy to go out partying with: I’ve been out until dawn with him on more than one occasion. I keep myself in good shape, but wish I had even half of his stamina.

    And yeah, there are plenty of other gay guys who would be repelled by the idea of sleeping with a woman. As for me, I don’t tell my queer friends how to be queer. Gold Star, omni-slut, all good, as long as they’re not trying to fit other people into the box they’ve chosen for themselves.