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Screenshot of a Tumblr post by nongunktional:

when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

  • biggerbogboy@sh.itjust.works
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    9 days ago

    Alright then, tell us your criteria for men to follow to be truly lonely, since you’re so sure that BPD apparently disqualifies you.

    • deaf_fish@midwest.social
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      8 days ago

      What? All I am saying is that this person isn’t the target of this post. It sounds like they would have a very hard time doing the things the OP suggested. There is more than one way to be not lonely. I hope they try some other advice that is easier for them.