• andros_rex@lemmy.worldOP
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    112
    ·
    3 days ago

    My local gay bar posted on Facebook about a massive increase in harassment, as well as a physical assault on a patron.

    Stochastic terrorism.

    A trans woman was attacked in Washington last week. People on Facebook are mask off, saying it was deserved.

    Is this going to explode into an orgy of violence and then finally die down? Will something bad enough happy than people will be shamed back into calling evil, evil?

    There were two separate shootings at homeless camps last week. I barely saw coverage of it.

    I feel so much pressure and fear that I can’t think. I don’t understand why people are filled with so much hate. It can’t feel good, can it?

    • BanMe@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      45
      ·
      3 days ago

      We have our Pride in October because of the summer heat, the board of my organization isn’t worried about booth setup or swag or elevator speeches. They primarily want a map showing every possible exit scenario depending on where a shooter might begin. We are going forward with the expectation that Prides will be more violent. And that breaks my heart.

      • TaterTurnipTulip@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        7
        ·
        2 days ago

        If you’re in an area where open carry is allowed, it may be worth seeing if there is a JBGC nearby that might be open to helping provide security

        • BanMe@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          26
          ·
          3 days ago

          Exactly, we’re steeling ourselves but we’re gonna be there come hell or high water. I’m reminding my guys that the first Pride was a riot and the next 20 were protests.

    • CobblerScholar@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      26
      ·
      3 days ago

      It’ll take multiple occurrences of a cisgender person being misgendered and shot to death over it for anything to happen and even then it’ll be on the “thoughts and prayers” level of effort as it is with every other shooting that happens near daily here

      • andros_rex@lemmy.worldOP
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        37
        ·
        3 days ago

        When I’ve shared articles about cis women being accused of being trans in bathrooms/harassed, the response is always “this wouldn’t have happened if trans women stayed out of women’s bathrooms to begin with.”

        They just seem to want to hate.

        • Joeffect@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          14
          ·
          3 days ago

          They are told to hate, so they do… and if you’re looking for something your going to find it

      • zwerg@feddit.org
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        14
        ·
        3 days ago

        It’s sad to say, but if you are trans or even gay, you need to start executing your escape plan if you have one. If you dont have a plan, you need to start making one, fast. This isn’t going to blow over any time soon. Help each other out where you can - there are plenty that will struggle to find a way out.

        • DrivebyHaiku@lemmy.ca
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          3
          ·
          2 days ago

          As part of the trans community in Canada it’s devastating watching our American kinfolk suffer. Because of the Safe Third Country Agreement American citizens cannot claim refugee status here. I have been writing to every politician I can to try and punch out an exception. The minute I can I am opening up my home to as many folk as I can.

        • SystemQ@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          5
          ·
          2 days ago

          Much easier said than done. Most countries only let you immigrate if you have some marketable skill, or lots of money, and nobody is accepting asylum cases from the US. Most of us are stuck here.

    • Doll_Tow_Jet-ski@fedia.io
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      24
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      3 days ago

      It breaks my heart to read a sane, reasonable person being in the US right now. Hold tight, I hope you survive this