• aeronmelon@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    I once had a potential employer tell me that they can’t trust me because I have no social media presence.

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    Thats me. I have 2 “social media” accounts, Lemmy and YT (coz I need the tutorials). My yt account is an old ex-boyfriend account that I stole from him a good 10 years ago lol

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        The best distiction i’ve heard is that social media follows people (twitter, youtube, mastodon, etc… whereas lemmy, reddit, etc… follow topics. They’re more like news feeds with a comment section.

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            Yeah, I came from ebaumsworld forums to Reddit, and Reddit to here, and they all scratch the same itch, which is basically me engaging in meaningless (not always) conversation with people, sometimes seriously, sometimes jokingly. All that’s changed is how it looks and how people talk.

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          that would make sense if there wasnt a number of lemmy communities dedicated to documenting drama from other lemmy communities and users, not to mention blood feuds between different domains

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            Lemmy reporting on lemmy is just regular old news i’m pretty sure. Would an online newspaper with a comment section count as social media then? How about paper newspapers with an active “comments from readers” section?

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          If you just wanted to follow a topic, you could follow Wikipedia RSS feeds.

          If you’re reading and responding to comments, you’re engaging in social media.

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          Ok bare with me here. News feeds with comments is? is it media that is social?

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              I will not bend my sails for a wind that blows the wrong direction, no matter how powerful the gust.

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                The only wind blowing in the wrong direction is coming from your ass, which is clearly the source of your “modern version of bulletin boards equals social media” hypothesis.

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                  Wow. you’re particularly tilted about it. I’d expect this kind of reaction on Facebook but not on a refined, sophisticated place that clearly isn’t social media.

                  Go the fuck outside dude.

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        Ive always differentiated lemmy/reddit from social media for 2 main reasons. First because it isnt (or wasnt) full of “influencers” trying to push shit on you. Second and probably more so, becausee its anonymous. I dont know anyone one here personally and no one knows me. These platforms are more like collections of the internet with a comment section, imo. Not much different than things like The Chive or even a news site, but instead of news, its memes and sometimes news

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          The structured user information is what I think killed the “free” vibe of the early internet: you naturally see a lot of information even before you contact anyone. That removes some intimacy of exchanging information about who you are, in a way you want. Around 2000, I was playing pool with random people on Yahoo Games, and trying to learn English talking to them. I’ve met a girl of my age from Jakarta, I talked to some boomer Arizona cowboy who was relieved to know “we’re not fucking commies anymore” (I`m Russian). These were interesting conversations where we discovered each other. Now I wouldn’t talk to the guy like that, because “I see we probably don’t have much in common, and he wrote this and that to other people”

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    Mine are up but the details apply to about 2010-2013 era activities. Definitely no longer a priority 🙃

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    If I had the energy I would comb through your account and profile you to prove you wrong. Even with the shittiest shitpost with as little sense as possible you are still putting part of yourself out there. Pair that up with comments and other posts and one can find out more about you than you want.

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      Half of what I post is bullshit and I’m not telling you which half. Is this comment included? You’ll never know for sure.

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        According to my online presence I’m a 58 year old overweight lesbian developer from Nebraska.

        I could also be a 22 year old white supremacist rancher from Montana.

        Or I could be a fat balding Iranian guy running a motel out of Southern California.

        whelp…guess that’s all I’ve got.