Same for unregulated systems, only without transparency, limits or recourse

That is precisely the point, well spotted.

Choosing silence is choosing the side of the oppressor. Silence only ever supports the status quo.

Your description was clear, our experiences seem to differ.

In case you’re worried we have different frames of reference: The way you’re trying to implicate Islam in denigrating terms is not respectful. In analogous phrasing, the Christian denominations are based around glorifying human sacrifice.

My experience is the opposite, it’s always Christians bringing it up, often by judging others’ actions out loud.

Never had any of the other Abrahamitic denominations try to convert me, although I was approached by a Hare Krishna recruiter once.