• curiousaur@reddthat.com
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      2 years ago

      Just said his house. At no point did I interpret this to mean he owned it. If your a renter you still refer to it a my house when inviting people over.

  • FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works
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    2 years ago

    I feel like the idea that women are otherworldly creatures instead of people and seeing someone being nice to their partner as “the man having tamed a female and convinced her to treat him well” has a lot to do with his problem.

    I hate how much that is preserved socially, there’s no good reason why that hasn’t gone away at least a decade or two ago.

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          2 years ago

          Cool! I didn’t know I was getting good numbers. That’s how I read the thing but you’re welcome to disagree, I certainly don’t read “convinced a woman to touch him gently” as someone recognizing the woman is a person who might’ve chosen to do so without convincing the same way she chose to rub his shoulders too.

          • Obi@sopuli.xyz
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            2 years ago

            OOP is a 30yo forever alone virgin posting to 4chan, I think this kind of perception of women is par for the course. At least the outcome wasn’t totally terrible and he walked away without offending anyone, probably the best we could hope for.

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        2 years ago

        There wasn’t, that’s what it sounded like to me, you’re welcome to disagree, angrily if you feel like it.

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        2 years ago

        If it wasn’t clear, I wasn’t saying he’s the most horrible person in the world but rather that his issue is most likely linked to the way he sees women.

        I also could’ve sworn I made a point about it being a societal issue rather than just that individual’s

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      2 years ago

      Totally agree. I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years now, and it most definitely didnt involve me trying to tame her 🤣

      It was just luck to meet. We both liked each other. That’s literally it.

    • yata@sh.itjust.works
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      2 years ago

      It definitely reeks of incel energy, which is unsurprising considering the source.